365 - good news
Its been too long. So much has happened. Im putting everything else on hold to post something. It wont be much but I wanted to share in the good news.
I bought a house. I take possession Dec 1st. My last day in my apt is Dec 31st. They couldnt help me work around the 60 day notice. Which is fine as Ill have a month to move.
Im broke because Ive used what Ive saved as my down payment. Im scared that Ill be living in a house where Ill be cold and hungry. Where all I do is work work work to pay off the bills.
My sister is thinking of moving in with me which will be a great help. I dont want to sound desperate but it would really really be a great help. But in case she doesnt. I know Ill be OK. I know that If the bank didnt think I could afford to buy a house they wouldnt have approved me for a motgage. So I can do this.
She will most likely take the basement as that would give us space from each other. As much as I love her and we love each other. There needs to be a space between us so we both dont get too irritated and too into each others faces. More to come on that.
Ill just have to cut back on going out for drinks, dinners, lunches and ill have to stop footing the whole bill when I go out sometimes.
Life will certainly be different but I figure its high time that I stick to and follow a budget.
It feels like such a grown up thing to do. I get teary sometimes and not because of the change in how much and what bills Ill be paying but that I am growing up. Making adult decisions.
Theres a part of me that scared of moving forward because theres the possibility that that parts fun will end. I just have to tell myself that its a different kind of fun that Ill be having. I just have to tell myself its a different part of fun that ill be having.
SB was in town and we had a lovely time together... :)
R was in town and I was sick and didnt want to get him sick so we are going to reschedule for another time.
B is hoping to get together sometime in Nov.
A has offerred to take me on a trip seeing as Ive taken my trip money and used it for the house instead.
SE misses me and has invited me over to his place for drinks. Ive told him I wont sleep with him and he said he would tell his neighbours he did anyway. SE and I work together.
T just bought a motorhome which will be stored for the winter and which he wont be using all winter. Maybe he'll take me on a weekend trip sometime in the summer. I think he will. Hes sweet on me. But we also work together so friends it is.
P called and left me a message and I wasnt able to call him back hence I wasnt able to spend time with him.
Work is going well. One of my girlfriends is going through training later this month. Im excited for her. I hope she does well.
xox
I bought a house. I take possession Dec 1st. My last day in my apt is Dec 31st. They couldnt help me work around the 60 day notice. Which is fine as Ill have a month to move.
Im broke because Ive used what Ive saved as my down payment. Im scared that Ill be living in a house where Ill be cold and hungry. Where all I do is work work work to pay off the bills.
My sister is thinking of moving in with me which will be a great help. I dont want to sound desperate but it would really really be a great help. But in case she doesnt. I know Ill be OK. I know that If the bank didnt think I could afford to buy a house they wouldnt have approved me for a motgage. So I can do this.
She will most likely take the basement as that would give us space from each other. As much as I love her and we love each other. There needs to be a space between us so we both dont get too irritated and too into each others faces. More to come on that.
Ill just have to cut back on going out for drinks, dinners, lunches and ill have to stop footing the whole bill when I go out sometimes.
Life will certainly be different but I figure its high time that I stick to and follow a budget.
It feels like such a grown up thing to do. I get teary sometimes and not because of the change in how much and what bills Ill be paying but that I am growing up. Making adult decisions.
Theres a part of me that scared of moving forward because theres the possibility that that parts fun will end. I just have to tell myself that its a different kind of fun that Ill be having. I just have to tell myself its a different part of fun that ill be having.
SB was in town and we had a lovely time together... :)
R was in town and I was sick and didnt want to get him sick so we are going to reschedule for another time.
B is hoping to get together sometime in Nov.
A has offerred to take me on a trip seeing as Ive taken my trip money and used it for the house instead.
SE misses me and has invited me over to his place for drinks. Ive told him I wont sleep with him and he said he would tell his neighbours he did anyway. SE and I work together.
T just bought a motorhome which will be stored for the winter and which he wont be using all winter. Maybe he'll take me on a weekend trip sometime in the summer. I think he will. Hes sweet on me. But we also work together so friends it is.
P called and left me a message and I wasnt able to call him back hence I wasnt able to spend time with him.
Work is going well. One of my girlfriends is going through training later this month. Im excited for her. I hope she does well.
xox
posted by darling @ 12:28 PM
2 Comments:
At November 03, 2008 5:42 PM,
Frank Nemecek said…
OMG! Congrats on becoming a homeowner.
Just wait until you drop your first mortgage payment into the mail. It's one of the most "grown-up" feelings I've ever had.
Congrats!
Love & laughter,
Frank
At November 13, 2008 8:59 AM,
Unknown said…
Owning a home can be a challenge, but there are many benefits as well. Good luck Darling!
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