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I’m energetic, intelligent, fun-loving and know how to treat a lady in and out of the bedroom. I want to find love first and foremost. Since there is suppose to be in excess of 15 million subscribers to the system, I will conclude there are about 7 or 8 million females, which is pretty good odds someone compatible with me is here. I think from what I have observed, the majority of ladies here, if not all, are uninhibited when it comes to sex. Since I am looking for a very special lady who would be intelligent, energetic, fun-loving, etc. and with a very high sex drive like myself, I have concluded more than one potential lover is here somewhere within the system. It is rather exciting you know because the majority of women are beautiful like yourself with a high sex drive. Bear in mind that I am searching for love first and foremost. And as Forrest Gump once said: "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get". I think that's what makes it all the more interesting because I think I'm in for some big surprises here.

I don't really know yet, dear, how you will feel about me as a potential prospect. But on the outside chance that you are well-disposed to taking a "leap of faith", I decided to email you because you caught my eye. The reason it did is because you impressed me as being a refined, intelligent and gorgeous young lady who potentially could hit it off with me. And as the saying goes: "You can't blame a guy for trying".

I'm a firm believer in "lady's choice" and so I will take a risk here that you may like what you see. I am single, never been married (it's a long story which I would be happy to divulge if you wouldn't mind hearing it), with no children.

If you have read this far you really are very sweet, another characteristic about a lady which I have a strong affinity towards. My hope dear is that you would respond and let me know just how you feel. I promise to honour and respect your decision.

Best wishes,
PL

ps. I couldn't resist the opportunity to get imaginative and creative out here in cyberspace as it pertains to my fantasy about what could happen if we met; in particular, what I would like to fantasize might happen if I could spend time alone with you. I certainly would love to build the anticipation to a mind-blowing crescendo by starting the day off slowly with a continental breakfast and building the heat as the day goes on. The breakfast is especially fulfilling cause we take the time to communicate... getting to know our life stories and sharing our intimate desires so freely.

Now that the ice is broken and we are definitely warming to one another, we take a trip to the shopping district and I lavish you with expensive gifts. We bring your gifts back to your place and quickly head on out for a boat cruise around the bay and savour the moment of being in each other's presence. We are beginning to like each other and the affinity is growing stronger.

The evening is spent at a show or live theatre followed by a romantic dinner. I see you back to your place, we embrace and kiss passionately; we can barely contain ourselves. You offer me a nite-cap and I am very shy and frightened cause I am still a virgin and afraid... I want so much to satisfy you... to let you know your pleasure and satisfaction comes first. You reassure me in a sweet and loving way that you will show me the way to heaven cause you've been there before and know the way back.

You put on some soft and seductive music and commence a slow deliberate, mind-blowing striptease for me. We engage in a long drawn out foreplay that heightens the anticipation and leads to feelings of sheer pleasure and ecstasy. We play with our exotic sex toys, aphrodisiacs, and enact the beautiful ritual of the Kama Sutra, taking our experience to places where no man or woman has gone before. We explore each other's bodies, inside and out, and nourish our senses all night long, becoming one, intertwined so perfectly... so inseparably!

Each time I visit you, we could enact a different role such as: I meet you at a strip bar We talk... we have drinks and we come home to your place and make love till we plop.

Since I would be sensitive to your needs first, dear, lady's choice would rule. I would be so sensitive to your needs and lavish you and treat you as a prince does his princess!

Be Happy, Healthy and Prosperous. May all your fondest hopes, dreams, desires and fantasies come true.

378 - What is it about a man

What is it about a man?

What is it about a man that I look at? What makes me decide that I want him? and what is it that I want him for if he doesn't make the grade? How bad is that? That if he doesn't make the cut... I wonder how I can somehow fit him into my life.

This post might be enlightening. For you? A little degrading for me. But honest.

When I meet a man. I always look forward to the best possibility. Who knows what that possibility could be. Just the best. Who doesn't want the best?

At first glance. At first meeting. Its an interview of sorts. Its true within a few minutes I can have a general sense of where it might go. If it will go anywhere or not. Ill find out if I am attracted to them physically. Though sometimes its difficult to tell because of all the clothes he has on.

Don't you ever wonder what the other person looks like naked before you get to that point? Just so you know if there is anything that might be a turn off or off putting or a deal breaker? I mean sometimes I want to see what Ill be getting before I get there to make sure that Its actually something I want to ... do.

So in my head I wonder what they look like naked. I also want to know all their bad habits. Their pet peeves and what ticks them off. Their deal breakers, annoying habits and anything that people might not like about them. Because I just want to know and get that out of the way.

As far as the good things about them, the funny quirks, the endearing habitual movements I can wait on because that's what I want to get to know in time. Like little surprises. The rest I want to know up front and at the beginning of a courtship if I can call it that so I know if there is something that I really wouldn't be able to handle then it can be dealt with without any awkward moments of thinking you've lead someone on, that you've become something special to them and so on.

Also at the beginning of a courtship as Ill call it from now on even though it sounds more romantic than I'm making it out to be. I also want to find out what it is they really are looking for. What kind of woman they are looking for because I want to know if what they are looking for is... well. Me.

If I can decide that they are looking for someone or something that I cannot provide or offer then there is no point in continuing this... courtship. So better luck next time and hope you find what you're looking for.

Why do I want that? Well because I know me best and I know what I can offer and If I am a match to their description then we move along.

I'm not saying someone will one day describe me to the T but if its somewhere in the vicinity then why wouldn't I think it would be a good match and why not continue with this person because he seems to be looking for someone... something like ... me.

Now that I think about it. it feels a little like I'm cheating, stacking the odds? But don't most people do something of the like? Maybe not as out and open as I do it but don't most people do that? Some people do mass dating, serial dating to some but its all to get closer to finding that one person.

Maybe I'm just in a loopy mood tonight. Introspective is the word I'm looking for.

Take SE. Pretty boy. Can make me think naughty thoughts and all hes wearing is a pair of rip away pants and white shirt. The thing is... once hes naked... it doesn't illicit the same naughty thoughts as when hes fully clothed. Strange? I am.

D? Can fill out a pair of jeans and long sleeve vneck and have me wanting to touch him even if its me squeezing his arm for a moment. Naughty thoughts well at warp speed. Then naked it takes it to a whole new level and I wonder how I can have my mouth in more the one place on his body at the same time.

With A who I have yet to take to second base I don't know if I could handle it going that far. Not for me but because for him it would take this to a whole new world of courtship. Did I mention that A has offered to ' take care of me'? I hope you are no longer wondering why I haven't let it go further.

SJ is new and is a little amorous because of his ummm preference for women with ample... assets. Not that I think mine are anything to talk about in the locker room but he seems very interested in getting together due to the many different things he would be able to... do.

C has made a return. I have yet to decide what Id like to do with him but I know for certain that it wont be how it was when we were together briefly. Ive grown a little bit and know what I want more than I did before so I hope that hell be receptive of how Ive become a little.... less submissive.

SB came for a visit last week and it was nice. Hes got some ideas that I am not sure of as it will tip the balance of who is in control... and I'm a girl who likes the reins. Even when it looks like I don't its only because I let them think I don't have it

Spring is fast approaching and so The Soup seem to realize this and are aware that spring brings out a new season and.... wardrobe :) Not only those in The Soup are aware of this. So are those not included.

People will be feeling more... amorous and well... I hope to take advantage and be right in the thick of things.

377 - outfit

When I was younger. I brought an outfit to school to wear to catch a certain teachers attention. The outfit consisted of a white top that tied underneath my then much smaller but still evident breasts, a pair of very short short shorts. Something to show off a young woman's body.

I remember being nervous. I remember taking my clothes off only to wear a body baring outfit. I remember walking outside where I knew I would be seen by him. I walked towards him, then past him. I acted like that was how I dressed all the time. I was cool and confident.

I don't remember what he was thinking. I don't even remember what I was thinking. But he followed me. He talked to me for a while and I could see his eyes taking in my outfit. My stomach, my navel and my legs.

Even then I had my eye on older men.